I often think how cool it would be if both my husband and I worked from home. He works in advertising sales, and while he’s required to report to his office each day, he spends a great deal of time in our home office during the evenings and on the weekends.

This works well for both of us. I don’t normally work during those times. But when I do, I usually grab my laptop and head elsewhere.

Still, there have been times when we’ve both needed the office. There’s a single desk, desktop computer, and printer. Since our laptops aren’t compatible with the printer, we have to transfer files to the desktop before printing a document.

We argue on who gets to work at the desk, who gets to sit in the comfortable chair, and how bright to keep the room. Fortunately, it isn’t a huge problem and we generally work it out. But if we had to work side-by-side on a daily basis, I’ve come up with a few solutions.

• Work on different sides of the room. Rather than share a work desk and supplies, set up separate work spaces. Agree to stay on your side of the room. If feasible, get your own computer, printer, etc.

• Don’t distract each other. Working with your spouse can become a major distraction. There’s always the tendency to talk about family and house business. It’s okay to converse, but don’t go overboard.

• Communicate your frustrations. Some people prefer to work with a little background music or the television on. What’s more, some people have a telephone voice that’s five octaves higher than their normal speaking voice. Nobody wants to be seen as a nagger or complainer. However, if your spouse has a few irritating habits, it’s best to talk about the problem - calmly and respectfully.

• Be patient and don’t give up on the arrangement too quickly. Expect an adjustment period.

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